Healthy (No) Contact

“…Staying in exposed contact and hoping for lasting change leads to further emotional and physical damage for the survivor.” #DVAwareness #freelywhole #DVRecoveryCoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is… Continue reading

Neutral is Not Safe

Neutral is not supportive nor safe. 😢 Please don’t abandon her. #DVAwareness #freelywhole #DVRecoveryCoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely Whole–in Jesus!

God Hears & Rescues

God hears your cries. He does not want you left in abuse and brokenhearted. His desire is to rescue and save. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely… Continue reading

Healing Scents for Anxious Feelings

Real plant oils** have been proven to have natural healing properties, not only for physical ailments but also for our emotions. As a natural health educator and Wellness Advocate, these natural, pure, safe, and effective essential oils, as well as hands-on protocols with them—locally, are an essential aspect in the healing resources I offer clients. **Not synthetic or adulterated fragrances, even those labeled “essential oil”, but are not true or high quality real natural plant oils with therapeutic benefits. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this… Continue reading

Red Flags

Once you see the Red Flags, you can’t unsee them (though sadly, some will try to ignore them.) #dvawareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative

God is There to Help Her

God cares for His daughters, and does not want them harmed. He sees. He loves. He is there. He will help you move from Survivor to Thriver. #dvawareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you… Continue reading

Simple Healing Tools

The trauma of DV takes its toll, and The Body—and Brain—Keep the Score. But there is hope and healing. You can be Freely Whole!#DVAwareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live… Continue reading

Patient Compassion

Enter with compassion, understanding, and for the long haul. Abuse and betrayal trauma isn’t a quick fix. She needs your patient support. #DVAwareness #freelywhole #DVRecoveryCoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a… Continue reading

Exaggerated Abuse?

“But don’t women usually lie about abuse?” “It wasn’t that bad.” “He didn’t hit her.” The reality is, she has been minimizing it and covering for him, for probably years or decades. She’s known his treatment of and attitude toward her was wrong, and not that of a loving husband. But was it really abuse? That’s what abuse does. It gaslights, manipulates, and confuses the victim. She’s had a hard enough time accepting the truth of reality that she is a victim of abuse. She doesn’t need you doubting her too. She’s not lying when she finally gets brave enough… Continue reading

Does God Expect You to Stay?

Does God expect you to stay? Enabling isn’t the “loving” or “biblical” thing to do. The abuser/sexually immoral has already broken the marriage covenant. #dvawareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Marriage is not a life sentence to abusive slavery. It is to be a bonding of mutual love and care, being one together, not one canceling the other by evil. There is no disclaimer to this, and other verses like it, “unless you married them.” Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like… Continue reading