Simple Healing Tools

The trauma of DV takes its toll, and The Body—and Brain—Keep the Score. But there is hope and healing. You can be Freely Whole!#DVAwareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live… Continue reading

Patient Compassion

Enter with compassion, understanding, and for the long haul. Abuse and betrayal trauma isn’t a quick fix. She needs your patient support. #DVAwareness #freelywhole #DVRecoveryCoach Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a… Continue reading

Exaggerated Abuse?

“But don’t women usually lie about abuse?” “It wasn’t that bad.” “He didn’t hit her.” The reality is, she has been minimizing it and covering for him, for probably years or decades. She’s known his treatment of and attitude toward her was wrong, and not that of a loving husband. But was it really abuse? That’s what abuse does. It gaslights, manipulates, and confuses the victim. She’s had a hard enough time accepting the truth of reality that she is a victim of abuse. She doesn’t need you doubting her too. She’s not lying when she finally gets brave enough… Continue reading

Does God Expect You to Stay?

Does God expect you to stay? Enabling isn’t the “loving” or “biblical” thing to do. The abuser/sexually immoral has already broken the marriage covenant. #dvawareness #freelywhole #dvrecoverycoach Marriage is not a life sentence to abusive slavery. It is to be a bonding of mutual love and care, being one together, not one canceling the other by evil. There is no disclaimer to this, and other verses like it, “unless you married them.” Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like… Continue reading

Who Can She Trust

Many women don’t tell anyone about the abuse they’re living in. Others, or later, will confide in a close friend, family member, or her pastor. Hopefully these people will be loving support for her. But most will not have accurate information to help her in properly dealing with abuse or the trauma it’s caused. Abuse trauma educated resources, coaches, counselors are needed to get her through to safety and healing. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow… Continue reading

Deep Breathing

For stress, anxiety, fear, … the first step to bringing a disregulated nervous system back into regulation, and bringing some calm to your body is focusing on slow, deep breathing. #DVAwareness # freelywhole Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content,… Continue reading

To Heal and Free

God sees. He cares. He wants you free and healed. ❤️‍🩹 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely Whole–in Jesus!

Is Yours a Safe Church?

Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely Whole–in Jesus!

Abusers Don’t Stop

Separation and Divorce don’t mean the abuse is over. Abusers continue to abuse through any avenue they can. Even no-contact or protection orders don’t mean abuse has stopped. Please don’t ever think that just because she’s out and free, healing and creating a new life, that she is completely safe, that the abuser has stopped, or especially that they can and should be “friends” now. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul… Continue reading

You Know Her

At your work. At the mall. At your gym. At the coffee shop. In your book club. In your church pews. 1 in 3! Yes, you know her! 💔 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and… Continue reading