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Abuse is More than Hitting

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He doesn’t have to hit her, to keep her under his control. Much abuse is hidden. But is just as damaging as if he smacked her around—or more so. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and… Continue reading →

To Heal and Free

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God sees. He cares. He wants you free and healed. ❤️‍🩹 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely Whole–in Jesus!

Healing Scents for Abuse

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Real plant oils** have been proven to have natural healing properties, not only for physical ailments but also for our emotions. **Not synthetic or adulterated fragrances, even those labeled “essential oil”, but are not true or high quality real natural plant oils with therapeutic benefits. As a natural health educator and Wellness Advocate, these natural, pure, safe, and effective essential oils, are an essential aspect in the healing resources I offer clients. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like… Continue reading →

Is Yours a Safe Church?

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Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and others to live a life that is Freely Whole–in Jesus!

Abusers Don’t Stop

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Separation and Divorce don’t mean the abuse is over. Abusers continue to abuse through any avenue they can. Even no-contact or protection orders don’t mean abuse has stopped. Please don’t ever think that just because she’s out and free, healing and creating a new life, that she is completely safe, that the abuser has stopped, or especially that they can and should be “friends” now. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul… Continue reading →

You Know Her

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At your work. At the mall. At your gym. At the coffee shop. In your book club. In your church pews. 1 in 3! Yes, you know her! 💔 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and… Continue reading →

DV Awareness Month

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October is DV Awareness Month. So, I’m dedicating more posts to this topic this month. Because 1 in 3! 😢 As DV educator, survivor advocate and coach, I not only help the 1 in 3, but I also desire to educate the other 2 in 3 women, as well as men, so you all can become compassionate helpers. Let’s be the hands and feet of Jesus, with His heart, Who came to heal the broken-hearted and set free the oppressed. Be sure to check out previous year’s October posts! Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email… Continue reading →

Neurodivergence and Abuse

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This isn’t my typical post, as I usually share on recognizing abuse/gaining clarity and gaining healing, recovery and rebuilding. But I feel this topic fits into gaining Clarity. Recently I’ve heard from a lot of survivors (not therapists or professionals or advocates), blaming abuse on neurodivergence/autism or about narcissists being neurodivergent. Nope! Abuse is abuse. And narcs are abusive. Neither neurodivergence nor autism (a type of ND) cause abuse, and they are no excuse for it. If someone is ND AND abusive, the abuse is on them for their entitlement, coercion, manipulation, etc. not their ND. When you consider the… Continue reading →

Survivor Memories

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Much of my own Survivor to Thriver story has only been shared at conferences and in private groups thus far. But God continues to open doors to help bring healing to others, through my story and my training in helping abuse and betrayal survivors, and that is what this website was created to do. So… “that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Corinthians 1:4 It’s interesting to see what comes up in “memories” from the past. (x doesn’t come up directly, as… Continue reading →