You Know Her

At your work. At the mall. At your gym. At the coffee shop. In your book club. In your church pews. 1 in 3! Yes, you know her! 💔 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to empower you and… Continue reading

DV Awareness Month

October is DV Awareness Month. So, I’m dedicating more posts to this topic this month. Because 1 in 3! 😢 As DV educator, survivor advocate and coach, I not only help the 1 in 3, but I also desire to educate the other 2 in 3 women, as well as men, so you all can become compassionate helpers. Let’s be the hands and feet of Jesus, with His heart, Who came to heal the broken-hearted and set free the oppressed. Be sure to check out previous year’s October posts! Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email… Continue reading

Neurodivergence and Abuse

This isn’t my typical post, as I usually share on recognizing abuse/gaining clarity and gaining healing, recovery and rebuilding. But I feel this topic fits into gaining Clarity. Recently I’ve heard from a lot of survivors (not therapists or professionals or advocates), blaming abuse on neurodivergence/autism or about narcissists being neurodivergent. Nope! Abuse is abuse. And narcs are abusive. Neither neurodivergence nor autism (a type of ND) cause abuse, and they are no excuse for it. If someone is ND AND abusive, the abuse is on them for their entitlement, coercion, manipulation, etc. not their ND. When you consider the… Continue reading

Survivor Memories

Much of my own Survivor to Thriver story has only been shared at conferences and in private groups thus far. But God continues to open doors to help bring healing to others, through my story and my training in helping abuse and betrayal survivors, and that is what this website was created to do. So… “that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Corinthians 1:4 It’s interesting to see what comes up in “memories” from the past. (x doesn’t come up directly, as… Continue reading