Abusers Don’t Stop

Separation and Divorce don’t mean the abuse is over. Abusers continue to abuse through any avenue they can. Even no-contact or protection orders don’t mean abuse has stopped. Please don’t ever think that just because she’s out and free, healing and creating a new life, that she is completely safe, that the abuser has stopped, or especially that they can and should be “friends” now. Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty

DV Awareness Month

October is DV Awareness Month. So, I’m dedicating more posts to this topic this month. Because 1 in 3! 😢 As DV educator, survivor advocate and coach, I not only help the 1 in 3, but I also desire to educate the other 2 in 3 women, as well as men, so you all can become compassionate helpers. Let’s be the hands and feet of Jesus, with His heart, Who came to heal the broken-hearted and set free the oppressed. Be sure to check out previous year’s October posts! Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty

Neurodivergence and Abuse

This isn’t my typical post, as I usually share on recognizing abuse/gaining clarity and gaining healing, recovery and rebuilding. But I feel this topic fits into gaining Clarity. Recently I’ve heard from a lot of survivors (not therapists or professionals or advocates), blaming abuse on neurodivergence/autism or about narcissists being neurodivergent. Nope! Abuse is abuse. And narcs are abusive. Neither neurodivergence nor autism (a type of ND) cause abuse, and they are no excuse for it. If someone is ND AND abusive, the abuse is on them for their entitlement, coercion, manipulation, etc. not their ND. When you consider the… Continue reading

God Will Sustain You

💖 My computer screensaver for several years. Take it for you, too.Perhaps not everyone supports you, but God has others that do support you and pray for you, as He sustains you. 💝 Living Coram Deo & freely wholeSDG!~ Liberty Subscribe to my email list in the sidebar and get notifications of future posts on this website. Join me on Facebook, Like & Follow my Freely Whole public page.To share Soul Care Creativity, join my Freely Whole Creative Community on Facebook,and Follow @FreelyWhole on Instagram and hashtag your creations #freelywholecreative Please consider supporting Freely Whole ministries. Your support helps me to continue to provide Soul Healing content, to… Continue reading

Oh Well!

I lived on adrenaline for most of my adult life. But it didn’t serve me well. I’ve gone from superwoman, of 24/7/52 doing it all for everyone, to “Oh well”. At times, over the past several years, I’ve felt “Oh well” had become my mantra. But it was much needed, and served me well. I remember the first time I used that phrase during the divorce process about some deadline that was impossible to meet. “Oh well”. I can only do what I can do. I’m only human. First time I or anyone else acknowledged that? That I wasn’t going… Continue reading